The period immediately following her birth was exhilarating. My Ph.D. came through during Sukkot, which added to an already festive Yom Tov. Life was normal and happy. I was busy with the kids, tending to my family's needs, the house, going back to aerobics classes – all the normal functions of daily living.
Showing posts with label Anxiety. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Anxiety. Show all posts
Tuesday, November 27, 2012
Postpartum's Gaping Black Hole
The period immediately following her birth was exhilarating. My Ph.D. came through during Sukkot, which added to an already festive Yom Tov. Life was normal and happy. I was busy with the kids, tending to my family's needs, the house, going back to aerobics classes – all the normal functions of daily living.
Monday, November 26, 2012
Delivery from Darkness : Bringing postpartum depression out of the closet.
Bringing postpartum depression out of the closet.
Excerpted from Delivery from Darkness, A Jewish guide to prevention and treatment of postpartum depression.
"I Was Being Buried Alive," the author's personal account
I was irritable; I cried; I was exhausted, yet had trouble sleeping. Getting through each day seemed nearly impossible. My own children avoided me; my husband tiptoed around me. I was convinced that my family and the world would be better off without me.
Although I was a certified nurse midwife at that time, my lack of experience and understanding of postpartum depression (PPD) matched that of the average layperson and, unfortunately, most medical professionals. PPD was something that happened to "other" women who already had psychological problems.
Sunday, November 18, 2012
MORE TO FOLLOW . . . grace upon grace . . . .
At the end of the day, a weary child is cradled comfortably at the lap of his loving father. The thrills and cares of the day spin off from his mind as he fights his heavy eyelids. He runs his tender fingers at the face of his father, gathers himself together and draws his lips closer to his father’s right ear.
Then he smiles as he whispers almost inaudibly, his hands feeling the sturdy arms and shoulders of his father. The father smiles and nods repeatedly, responding with that usual reassuring voice.
Friday, November 16, 2012
What If Making Love Helped You Make Miracles?
by GINA PARRIS
Have you ever been so stressed you wished for a miracle…?
Paul was on the couch bitterly straining over his computer for the countless night in a row.
I know how much he hates coming home from workjust to do “other people’s work,” night after night, from his laptop. The irritation flowed like smoke from his nostrils. His entire energy said, “Leave me alone!”
He wasn’t the only one under stress in the house. Some days the anxiety coursed through any one of us to the point of nausea. Did I mention this can lead to fighting?
Finally he shut the computer, grabbed his cup of tea and headed down the hall. I called out to him from the living room.
“Hey, I think I’m learning something. You are clearly in need of miracle sex.”
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Tuesday, October 30, 2012
Is Sex Addiction a Real Disease?
Celebrities have made headlines in recent years citing "sex addiction" as a reason for their infidelity.
But is what's known to psychologists as "hypersexual disorder" a real pathology or just a lame excuse for bad behavior?
The issue is a real one, since there's been talk of including hypersexual disorder in the upcoming revision of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM), considered the "bible" for psychologists.
But is what's known to psychologists as "hypersexual disorder" a real pathology or just a lame excuse for bad behavior?
The issue is a real one, since there's been talk of including hypersexual disorder in the upcoming revision of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM), considered the "bible" for psychologists.
Thursday, September 27, 2012
MORE TO FOLLOW . . . "grace upon grace" . . . .
At the end of the
day, a weary child is cradled comfortably at the lap of his loving father. The thrills and cares of the day spin off
from his mind as he fights his heavy eyelids. He runs his tender fingers at the face of his father, gathers himself together
and draws his lips closer to his father’s right ear. Then he smiles as he whispers almost
inaudibly, his hands feeling the sturdy arms and shoulders of his father. The father smiles and nods repeatedly,
responding with that usual reassuring voice: "Go to sleep . . . ."
The child’s voice
faded into silence as he drifts off to a peaceful sleep.
He had his fill
of today’s delights – but he has his cares and desires for tomorrow. His sleep is undisturbed as he had confided
everything in his heart to his father. It is enough that his father knows! It is enough that he is in the arms of his father. It is enough that those strong hands
embrace his fragile and weary body. The
child believes that his father’s love will find a way to satisfy tomorrow’s
needs.
As Father, God is
moved by love to provide for all of the needs of His children.
At times,
fatherly love may find it necessary to withhold some material blessings. But
the hand that withholds is also the same
hand attached to the heart that loves. That is all we need to know.
One of the most
beautiful Bible passages is that section of the Sermon in the Mount where Jesus
speaks movingly to His disciples about the tender care of His Father for all
His children.
“Take no thought for your life,” He says, “ what ye shall eat or what ye shall
drink, nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body
more than raiment? Behold the fowls of
the air; for they sow not, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns; yet
your heavenly Father feedeth them. Are
ye not much better than they? …
Consider the lilies of the field, how they
grow; they toil not, neither do they spin.
And yet I say unto you that even Solomon in all his glory was not
arrayed like one of these. Wherefore, if
God so clothe the grass of the field, which today is and tomorrow is cast into
the oven, shall He not much more clothe you, O ye of little faith?
Therefore take not thought, saying, What
shall we eat? Or, What shall we drink? Or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed?
…Your heavenly Father knoweth that ye have need of all these things. But seek ye first the kingdom of God
and His righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.”
“Your Father!” What a tender, reassuring touch these words
give. “Your heavenly Father knoweth that ye have need of all these
things.”
Our heavenly
Father does know our every want, desires and needs. He is abundantly able and willing to provide. “He
that spared not His own Son, but delivered Him up for us all, how shall He not
with Him also freely give us all things?” (Romans 8:32).
There is no need in our life, however great
or small, that God does not know and which He will not fill if it were
necessary for our temporal and eternal happiness. “My God
shall supply all your need according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus”
(Philippians 4:19 ).
How can I be sure
that each succeeding day will find a sufficient measure of His grace and
goodness to see me and my loved ones through?
John speaks of the heavenly glory of Jesus: “Of His fullness have all we received – and grace for grace” (John 1:16). Literally, “grace upon grace.”
Christ’s
goodness pours in upon us as the waves of the sea. As one wave comes crashing to shore, there is
always another wave close behind. As the
next wave comes frothing in, there is another wave closely following, and
another … and another. Christ’s capacity
and willingness to provide are like the unending waves of the sea …unlimited,
inexhaustible - and eternal.
A well-to-do man
died and left instructions to his wife to give a big portion of his wealth
to a poor pastor who had ministered to the family throughout the years. The widow thought it would be best to turn
the money over to the pastor in regular installments. So she mailed him a check for P5,000.00 as a
start. Inside the envelop she placed a
slip of paper upon which was written: “More to follow.”
Every two weeks,
without fail, the elderly pastor would receive a check with the identical
message: “MORE TO FOLLOW.”
“More to follow!” That is Christ’s unbreakable pledge to all
that believe in Him. The blessings that we receive today are but a
pledge for those that we shall receive tomorrow;
And those we receive tomorrow will bear the same pledge of heaven: “MORE TO FOLLOW.”
”… His compassions fail not. They are new every morning: great is Thy
faithfulness” (Lamentations 3:22 -23).
(based on a old devotional from grampaewie's archives)
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